The year 2023 has been a whirlwind. First there was the passport updating, which was an ordeal.
Then there was the passing of the behind-the-wheel driving exam making the spud a bona fide, legal driver. That was a celebration.
There was the senior prom. The “theme” was Art and Soul. Whatever that is supposed to mean. The spud picked a dress and wanted to go as Monet’s Water Lilies. But she ended up more like a pin-up girl (a very classy pin-up girl) from an Alphonse Mucha or Charles Gibson drawing.
There was a lot of cleaning, purging of childish things, and packing of cherished items.
But, at long last, after eighteen-and-a-half years. It. Finally. Happened. The spud grew up and graduated high school.
There was the Senior Picnic. There was the last-day-of-school-ever luncheon with Mama-san, Uncle Lief and Miss J.
Her dad and step-mom flew into town. There was the graduation ceremony rehearsal. The big day came where she walked across the stage. There were some tears. We ate indifferent cake in the reception hall before crossing town to have our fancy-pants graduation dinner at the rotating restaurant with Mama-san, Daddy and Step-mom. We reminisced. We shared remembrances of happy times and embarrassing tales of growing up. There was some laughing. Some exasperation. I forgot to get pictures of her in her graduation dress under the gown.
We packed suitcases not once, not twice, but three times. More tears. More exasperation. No laughing. Finally she walked through the door with three giant suitcases. Then came the torrent of tears.
She was off to tour central Illinois, hop across the Atlantic to tour Italy, then spend an indefinite time taking in England and all it has to offer. Her Dad and Step-Mom are currently living in Cambridge, if she can get a visa, she may stay with them permanently.
I emptied out her room and stacked the items she couldn’t take in large plastic tubs in a corner of the basement for some future time when she might return to claim them. Cleaned out her old bedroom, repainted it and claimed it as my own, turning by old bedroom into an exercise and craft room. It is like my reward for 18.5 years of putting someone else first. My condolence for sending off my spud into her own life.
It is bittersweet, but mostly sweet.
Good luck my Spud! Have fun traveling the world. I will be here when you are done.
XOXO
PS. Sorry, this is not publishing the way I want it to look. Every time I come back to WordPress it is getting harder and harder to navigate and get the look I want. But you all get the picture…
Cheers!
Janie